Modern Speed Dating Across the USA
Our curated speed dating events bring together singles looking for real conversation, in beautiful venues, with thoughtful hosting, and an atmosphere designed to make everyone comfortable.
Why Choose Flare?
At Flare, we’re reinventing speed dating. Our events aren’t about rushing through awkward conversations. They’re about creating memorable experiences, meeting great people, and enjoying a night that actually feels fun.
We design every event to be energetic, exciting, and one-of-a-kind. From curated icebreakers to thoughtfully selected venues, we make it easy to connect in a comfortable, welcoming environment.
Unique One-Night Experiences
No two events are ever the same
Curated Venues
Hosted at the best bars, lounges, and local gems
Inclusive + Welcoming
Safe, comfortable spaces for all singles
Structured, Low-Pressure Format
A welcoming format designed to make meeting new people feel natural and comfortable.
How Speed Dating Works?
Arrive & Warm Up
Once everyone is checked in, we start the night with a fun icebreaker, such as trivia, “Two Truths and a Lie,” or another game designed to loosen everyone up. Every event has its own vibe.
Let’s Start the Dates
You’ll sit across from a potential match for about 8 minutes. Talk, laugh, keep it light. You set the tone. When time’s up, the host will guide the rotation.
Scorecard Time
Use the personal scorecard link sent to your email on event day to record your impressions after each date. Make sure your scorecard is complete before the event wraps up.
After the Event
Stick around for a drink, mingle, or chat more with people you connected with. Within 48 hours, we’ll email you your matches.
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