SPEED DATING ACROSS THE USA
Delete the apps. Meet someone in person.
Curated speed dating events for singles who are done with the apps. Eight minutes per date, a host who keeps it easy, a beautiful venue, and your matches in your inbox within 48 hours.
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Why choose Flare?
We’re reinventing
speed dating.
Not awkward rounds in a hotel ballroom. A real night out, designed to make meeting people feel easier.
- Unique one-night experiencesNo two events are ever the same
- Curated venuesGreat bars, lounges, and local gems
- Inclusive + welcomingComfortable spaces built for real connection
- Structured, low-pressure formatTimed rounds and a host who keeps the night moving
The format
How speed dating works
Four steps, about two hours.
Arrive & warm up
A quick icebreaker helps loosen everyone up and gets the room talking.
The dates
About 8 minutes each. Your host guides every rotation so you can focus on the conversation.
Digital scorecard
Use your personal digital scorecard to record who you’d like to see again.
Matches
Stay for a drink if you want. Mutual matches land in your inbox within 48 hours.
Questions
Before you book
Will it be awkward?
That’s exactly what the format is designed to avoid. Your host guides the room and we start with an icebreaker to take the pressure off before the dates begin.
Can I come on my own?
Absolutely. The night is hosted and structured from check-in onward, so you don’t need to bring a friend to have someone guiding the experience.
Who will actually be there?
Flare events are built for singles who are tired of swiping and want a more intentional way to meet people in person. Each event is organized around a specific age range and format.
What if I don’t match with anyone?
A match can’t be guaranteed. If you don’t receive a match, Flare currently sends a discount code so you can come back and meet a new group of daters.
What’s included in the ticket?
Your ticket covers admission and the hosted speed-dating experience. Any extras or event-specific inclusions are listed on the individual event.
Can I reschedule or get a refund?
Tickets are non-refundable. With at least 48 hours’ notice, Flare can transfer your ticket to another event or keep it on file for a future date.